@Concordia456 in the odd chance you come back, I hope you are enjoying your game a bit more by now
And i'm not going to quit
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Hi-Five!
I asked her to stop plundering me but she does it even more.[...] but I don't feel that people should be able to harass
If this was chess and you asked me not to take your pieces would you call it harassment if I still took your queen? Or would you say I'm just playing the game?
Please try not to take plundering personally. This is as much a game of war as it is a city builder. Once per 24 hrs is a pretty generous defence in itself
Supposing it wasn't 24 hrs. How much (or little) would you find acceptable and /not/ harassment? Keeping in mind what you're asking them is to not utilise the tools available to them. They're not obligated to play with one hand tied behind their back just because you requested them to play handicapped from their maximum capacity.
I am simply asking for help or if anyone has any advice.
Cool. Reacting to anything said to you or acting out in frustration is more likely to get reaction from others then it is to get anything else. I apologise that its not going as smoothly as you wanted and ask that you try to have a little patience.
Ok, where to start?
First thing, try not to be attached to your stuff. There are so many games out there where you could lose everything and have to start again from scratch. FoE is such that as a defender even if you lose you haven't lost much and you can control how much you end up losing.
Plunderers can't take the following
(1) Motivated buildings
(2) All Age buildings
(3) Great Buildings
(4) Unfinished productions
If you can use the above criteria to outsmart your opponents. Aid all your friends regularly, dump the friends that aren't aiding back and get more friends that do. Get event buildings that require aiding. The bigger [event] buildings are preferable to the smaller ones as the further in the game you go the more stuff you'll have that'll need motivation
If you know you're going to be taken from and can't prevent it outright put more stuff out to be taken. Use sets or small event production buildings like the sunken treasure and winter sleigh to distract from your other things. Overwhelm your plunderers with so much production that no matter what happens you've still got more then you're currently getting
Change your productions from 24 hr to 8 hr. It'll give the same output for you (8hr x2 = 24hr x1) but only lose half if taken.