We should be given 80 invites.
I agree. For whatever reason, Inno doesn't track who we invite vs. who invited us. My GUESS is that this would be difficult to manage and display without some sort of coding overhaul.
Though sadly, if we simply have more than 80 friends, we have to reduce our numbers (whatever that may be, even from 140) to 79, just to add one person.
I only needed to reduce my list down to 80 because I don't count, even though I'm numbered in the list. However, I made the youthful mistake of adding people willy-nilly when I first started and eventually realized the power and worth of being able to invite, so I made a painful decision and deleted roughly 40 friends to get back down around 80. I've stayed there ever since.
The wording on the message says “you have invited more than 80 friends.” implying that if you remove a person that you know you, yourself, added that you would be able to add one more. But that is not the case.
While I agree, one could argue that you only get 80 invites TOTAL -- ever -- as the wording is unclear about that as well. Just because you get 80 invites, doesn't mean they give them back once used. Of course, that's not what they mean... but one could argue that it is given the wording, so my point is -- the wording can be interpreted and reinterpreted... but we all know how it works. Playing the game means learning the game.
I recently learned the hard way that even pending friend requests count against the 80 (really only 79, since you appear on your own friends list.)
This isn't accurate. I can add up to 81 before I get cut off. You don't count in your own list against this limit.
While I'm far from a "whale," I have spent several thousand dollars over the years.
Yikes!
That's NOT a whale?!?!
I hover my friends list at or around 80. That way if I need to add someone to trade goods for example the process is easy.
Keep your friends active and get rid of surplus and I would be surprised if anyone really needs many more than this.
I agree, although our guild is small at the moment, so sometimes getting aided fully before collecting can be frustrating. I have LOTS of self-aid kits, though... but still prefer motivation the old-fashioned way.
You'll need more as your city expands. I average forty pages of "social interactions" and it isn't always enough to get every SoK motivated.
That's just one of the many parts of how this game works. You have to manage how you get them motivated. You decide how many friends to have. Eventually, you've grown to a point where you need more of them and have to decide if giving up your invite power is worth that extra aid. It's all in playing the game.