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I think you miss the point. often times people do put FPs on with no expectation of you paying them back. no "obligated return of favor," as in my example where a former guildie put 200 FPS on my Capitol without messaging. She just wanted BPs, and I noticed after she half-filled it so I used swap threads for the rest.
I certainly didn't have to, but I felt bad and appreciated she was trying to help. After the next level I messaged saying I couldn't handle more pop, but thanks so much for the FPs, and I'd be happy to sell her the goods when she acquires her BPs. But she never even asked to use her FPs and payment for goods. I think your malicious characterization is pretty hugely off the mark.
Your example is exempt from what I was describing. My example specifies, rather I had meant it to, the intent of the person donating and demanding. The only way we can learn intent is if they communicate, so the only people that would fall into the malicious characterization would be the examples mentioned by others; Such as the ones who donate 100FP and then demand a return gift. My intent was to differentiate between agreed upon swaps or people who donate without false intent versus people who use the 'feelsbadman' to their advantage, consciously or not.
My mini-rant stems from a philosophical dilemma first posited to me by my sister demanding I put her dish in the dishwasher after she put mine in without my knowledge. There is a huge difference, to me, between "Hey, I scratched your back, can you scratch mine?" & "I DID YOU A FAVOR! NOW DO WHAT I SAY". That's the straw people I imagined in my characterization. I feel my sister fell into the 'misguided nice person expectations' category. She was frustrated that I would not immediately return the favor, which leans more on the selfishness side of the spectrum, but isn't malicious. Previous thread examples appear to be the more malicious and potentially manipulative kind. That being said...
Your example is wholesome and I had no intent to besmirch or question anybodies character in it.