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Why the definition of marriage matters

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DeletedUser10415

I'm not a lawyer so take what I say with a grain of salt here but I think a private enterprise shouldn't be forced to provide services (and technically the bakery is paying a fine rather than baking a cake so I'll split hairs and claim a win on that ground
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) while a public institution should. It can lead to a real slippery slope if not well defined what is and isn't allowed (can someone force a jewish rabbi to give their catholic son a bar mitzvah?). Do you know if there is a plan to appeal the decision?

I'm not a lawyer either. My personal feeling is that non-essential businesses like wedding photographers and bakeries (not pharmacies, medical facilities, grocery stores, emergency services, etc) should be free to take money from whom they choose, as long as they're up front about who that's going to be. I'm sure you've been to a restaurant that had a sign on the door "No shirt, No shoes, No service". Wedding photographers who only want heterosexual money need to spell it out. Put a sign up. Though if they're objecting on the basis of their Christian faith, then what the sign needs to say is "Good Christian Heterosexual Couples Only - one man and one woman, neither of which have ever been divorced, worn clothing made of more than one fiber, touched any skin of pigs, eaten any shellfish, taken the Lord's name in vain, etc. etc. etc." Because if one's going to discriminate on the basis of what's forbidden in one's holy book, it should be all or nothing, right? Or if they just hate gays, they need to be upfront and honest about it. I'm sure the Westboro Baptist Church would be happy to print up the sign....

As for your bar mitzvah scenario, the rabbi has religious freedom protection as his business is the synagogue business.
 

Mustapha00

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It's not much of a leap between supporting laws that deny equal protection under the law (human rights) and seeing those laws as license to kill. It's very convenient to my argument that you introduced the white supremacist who had inspired his followers to commit violence. Thanks for that. So you would be mistaken in your thought that I am not equating the two, and the fact that you cannot equate the two in regard to homosexuals, but are able to where white on black racial violence is concerned also confirms your status as being as much of a bigot as those who are inclined to attempt to murder people like me because of my orientation. Also. Actual laws which discriminate are far more compelling as "inspiration" than the personal charisma of some wingnut white supremacist. Or do I have you all wrong? Would you not vote to repeal the legalization of SSM if given the chance?

Moral equivalence is a very sad concept.

In your mind, the Muslim that throws a gay person off a roof to their death and a Christian who prays for the deliverance of the gay person's soul is somehow equivalent? Just...sad.

The charge of bigotry can go both ways. You've proven to be quite the anti-Christian bigot in what you've written. Comfortable with the badge?

My position on SSM is that the Federal government does not have the Constitutional authority to involve itself in the issue in any way. SCOTUS should never have taken this case, as it is an issue properly left to the States under the Tenth Amendment. However, once SCOTUS did take the case, they decided correctly, as the"equal protection" clause of the Fourteenth Amendment does stipulate that, for Federal purposes, a marriage deemed to be legal in any one state must be recognized as legal in all the others. For myself, given the chance to vote on the issue, I would not vote to approve SSM because I believe the government has no compelling interest in the definition of marriage.

Wow. That's my first reaction. I'm really curious where you get your sources. In the case of Curley vs. NAMBLA, the only person saying NAMBLA "somehow spurred" Jaynes (the murderer) to commit crimes was a witness for the Curleys, who the judge ruled incompetent to testify. Jaynes has always maintained his innocence. Also, irrelevant except for accuracy's sake Jayne's partner in crime, Sicari, who testified against Jaynes in the criminal case, reported the chain of events differently from from your presentation of them. I won't go into details because of where we are, but do some proper research, like I have, and you'll know the truth of it.

Guess what. The ACLU has defended the KKK!
https://www.aclu.org/news/aclu-em-defends-kkks-right-free-speech

The ACLU has defended Christians!
http://www.christianitytoday.com/ct/2006/may/22.64.html

Perhaps it's because they disagree with you on the SSM issue that you want to drag their name through the mud?
https://www.aclu.org/feature/out-freedom

Edit P.S.: Oh, by the way, your might find this statistic interesting:
In the mid 90s, an undercover detective discovered the NAMBLA organizational rolls. 1,100 members. In 1997, NAMBLA was the largest group in IPCE (an international pro-pedophile organization) The largest! I'm sorry, but they seem like quite the fringe organization to me.

I agree that NAMBLA is a "fringe organization", but it seems that Progressives do not necessarily equate numbers with impact. The modern Klan is- thankfully!- a tiny percentage of what it once was, yet authorities remain vigilant against its activities. But the Black Panthers are also a "fringe organization" but the Obama Justice Department gave them a pass in a clear instance of voter intimidation. If one is deserving of scrutiny, then all are. If one should get a pass, then all should. I would prefer that all such groups have an eye or three be kept on them.

As for the ACLU, I'm sure that you are aware that they were started by a Communist:

I have continued directing the unpopular fight for the rights of agitation, as Director of the American Civil Liberties Union ... I have been to Europe several times, mostly in connection with international radical activities, chiefly against war, fascism and imperialism; and have traveled constantly in the United States to areas of conflict over workers' rights to strike and organize.

My chief aversion is the system of greed, private greed, private profit, privilege and violence which makes up the control of the world today, and which has brought it to the tragic crisis of unprecedented hunger and unemployment ...

Therefore, I am for socialism, disarmament and, ultimately, for abolishing the state itself as an instrument of violence and compulsion.
I seek the social ownership of property, the abolition of the propertied class and sole control of those who produce wealth.

Communism is the goal.- Roger Baldwin
http://message.snopes.com/showthread.php?t=21474
They have not strayed too terribly far from that goal.

In any event, what the heck does this have to do with SSM anyway?

Another poster asked about a potentially "slippery slope" developing whereby other 'alternative' forms of marriage might see a push towards legalization, to which I replied that has already happened with polygamy. The attempts are few as are those calling for its legalization (though Politico, hardly a fringe publication, recently offered this advocacy for polygamy: http://www.politico.com/magazine/story/2015/06/gay-marriage-decision-polygamy-119469). That article makes a very good point in saying that SSM was all but "unthinkable" only 20 years ago, but is now the law of the land. Time will tell, of course, but it is more than possible that marriage will be redefined once again in the space of 20- or less- years, when the standard definition of the term lasted for centuries.



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Just because methods differ does not make either one more or less bigoted. There are no degrees of bigotry.

Simple bovine excrement.

Gay in the US prior to the recent SCOTUS decision? Alive to bemoan the fact you can't marry your same-sex partner. Gay in, say, Iran prior to the recent SCOTUS decision? Either more deeply in the closet than R. Kelly ever thought about being or dead.

I'm going out on a limb and posit that you are somewhat familiar with Saul Alinsky.
 

DeletedUser10415

Please provide an example where I have disparaged Christians or their faith.

P.S. Play of the bigotry card by the party that played it first doesn't work. If SSM opponents had kept their noses out of other people's business, people wouldn't be calling them bigots.
 
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DeletedUser21417

I was poking around and came across this thread, dated 2012, how nice that here in the year 2015 gay marriage is legal in every single state. Hoorah
 

DeletedUser13838

My position on SSM is that the Federal government does not have the Constitutional authority to involve itself in the issue in any way.
On what grounds does the federal government have the consitutional authority to regulate OSM but not SSM?
 

Mustapha00

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So you do not find it to be disparaging of Christians to equate their kid-gloves treatment of gays with Islam's predilection of murdering them? Think praying for the soul of a sinner is the same as killing them?

Nope...not bigoted at all.

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On what grounds does the federal government have the consitutional authority to regulate OSM but not SSM?

They don't.

To be clear, I contend that, Constitutionally, the Federal government has no power, explicit or implicit, to regulate marriage in any way. The entire fascade began with SCOTUS discovering a "right to privacy" in the early 1960s in a case involving contraception. We have gone since then from a 'right' for couples to use birth control to a 'right' to same sex marriage, the entire lineage based on a Constitutionally non-existent finding.

However, states absolutely do have the right, under the Constitution, to regulate marriage, as all powers not expressly given the Federal government within the Constitution belong to the states (a poor paraphrase of the Tenth Amendment). If California wants to legalize SSM and Kentucky not, then those are perfectly legal and Constitutional outcomes.
 

DeletedUser10415

So you do not find it to be disparaging of Christians to equate their kid-gloves treatment of gays with Islam's predilection of murdering them? Think praying for the soul of a sinner is the same as killing them?

If you stopped at praying for the souls of sinners around the beam in thine own eyes, that would be one thing. But let's have a little honesty here - Praying is one thing - Interfering in other people's lives is another. By the by, there are plenty of Christians who are supportive of same-sex marriage. It's just the ones who actively oppose equal rights for GLBT who are the bigots.

To be clear, I contend that, Constitutionally, the Federal government has no power, explicit or implicit, to regulate marriage in any way.

And yet, nobody was complaining about it before SSM became a possibility. Why is that?
 

Mustapha00

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If you stopped at praying for the souls of sinners around the beam in thine own eyes, that would be one thing. But let's have a little honesty here - Praying is one thing - Interfering in other people's lives is another. By the by, there are plenty of Christians who are supportive of same-sex marriage. It's just the ones who actively oppose equal rights for GLBT who are the bigots.

Just as you contend my bigotry has blinded me, I contend that your bigotry has blinded you. You are intolerant and (at least verbally) histile towards Christianity. If you are fine with that, then there's one more soul that must be prayed for.

And yet, nobody was complaining about it before SSM became a possibility. Why is that?

I guess you must have missed the number of states that voted against SSM- including ultra-liberal California!- in the years after the Massachusetts decision.
 

DeletedUser10415

You are intolerant and (at least verbally) histile towards Christianity.

Quote my verbal hostility towards Christianity. Prove my intolerance. You state this as fact, so this should be easy.


I guess you must have missed the number of states that voted against SSM- including ultra-liberal California!- in the years after the Massachusetts decision.

You didn't answer my question.
 

DawnLight the Just

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If you stopped at praying for the souls of sinners around the beam in thine own eyes, that would be one thing. But let's have a little honesty here - Praying is one thing - Interfering in other people's lives is another. By the by, there are plenty of Christians who are supportive of same-sex marriage. It's just the ones who actively oppose equal rights for GLBT who are the bigots.
It's funny (not haha funny, though) that you complain about all the civil rights being taken from you, but seem to have no trouble in denying others their civil rights. You don't want people "actively oppos[ing] equal rights for GLBT", yet you actively support taking away the rights guaranteed under the Constitution from those same people. That is the definition of intolerance.

And yet, nobody was complaining about it before SSM became a possibility. Why is that?
Lots of people were complaining about it. You just don't look for it to see it.
 

cbalto1927

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What exactly does sex have to do with marriage? ;)



I may be misinformed but I never heard of anyone suing to force photographers, bakers etc. to take pictures at weddings or bake cakes, etc. If you're trying to somehow tie this in with a decision to force a public servant from performing their government duties then I don't see the connection. Part of a county clerk's job is issuing marriage certificates. If that person has an objection to performing their job duties for whatever reason they are free to find another job. They are not free to change the law based on their religious beliefs.

I may not be intelligence in " areas of law" however do see the whole picture that if you allow one thing to be legal, then other people would come up and say "lets make that legal too" A simple reading in US history would tell you that even small groups that we don't like are protected in the US Constitution. I am sure gay marriage started out as a small group and grew over years. It took years to get where we are today and the Government had to decide what to do with that group of people who believed that gay marriage should be legal. I have to remind you that pedophiles have many groups that goes by different names behind legal names. What i am trying to point out that even you say it okay for gay people to marry, then you got to admit it okay for other things we regarded as immoral "ok". From my view point is that none of these acts should even be legal, and Federal Government should have taken a neutral position in this issue.
 

DeletedUser10415

It's funny (not haha funny, though) that you complain about all the civil rights being taken from you, but seem to have no trouble in denying others their civil rights. You don't want people "actively oppos[ing] equal rights for GLBT", yet you actively support taking away the rights guaranteed under the Constitution from those same people. That is the definition of intolerance.


Whose civil rights am I denying and what right, specifically, am I denying them?

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What i am trying to point out that even you say it okay for gay people to marry, then you got to admit it okay for other things we regarded as immoral "ok".

Who is this "we" you speak of?
 
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cbalto1927

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Whose civil rights am I denying and what right, specifically, am I denying them?

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Who is this "we" you speak of?

i would assume "we" is what we define normals. unless you support pedophilia. This is no different. what is bad is bad. I would guess Americans learned that there no such thing as denying one group and allowing another.
 

cbalto1927

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And who is this "we" making these definitions? Or do you have a mouse in your pocket?


it becomes clear to me that if you do support same-sex marriage then you support everything that goes against humanity. I don't care if it the "new times" Normals are people like me who knows that same sex marriage is no different than a pedophile. We humans aren't designed to have sex with another man. What is it you don't understand?
 

DeletedUser10415

No, actually you've dodged the question. Twice now. Konrad asked you "what exactly does sex have to do with marriage?" and you didn't answer. And here again, I've asked you, point-blank, and you don't answer. This is a thread about the definition of marriage. You keep bringing up sex, which by your words, "We humans aren't designed to have sex with another man" suggests you believe the sex act has something to do with marriage. Must people have sex if they get married? If so, why?
 
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