Maybe add a different news message for people who use the "Aid" feature?
"Hixton has Aid-Polished your Obelisk"
Or even better:
"Hixton has Aided your Butcher"
Since there is no real difference other than terminology between motivating and polishing.
This way, when someone M/P's a dumb and useless building we won't think they're absolute dingbats and just assume they were in a hurry.
Also, all the grouches can then just remove people from their friends list that use this "awfully awful" convenience.
On that note, is there ANY way to put a little number (perhaps just under their name or something) by/on people's pictures to let you know the last time they M/P'd you? That would be insanely useful in building a good friend list.
I'm in a guild of 80, with 50 in my 'hood, and a friends list of 94. It's REALLY hard to keep up with who is and isn't M/P-ing me.
I'd honestly prefer that OVER a wishlist feature that everyone is asking for because I'd rather build a community of people who constantly M/P, even if it's random, than a group of people where only a handful do it the "right" way.
Finally, I've looked at some fairly big cities and (although I'm in a newer world) I can't imagine people have more than 100 buildings in their city, even the biggest ones. (Those of you complaining about your 200 1x1 deco's... here's a hint, STOP BUILDING THEM and redesign your city to fit a large cultural building that will actually be more efficient and give less buildings to M/P) Of those buildings, most players will probably have 50%-80% newest age, why? Because they're better! If you're getting 80-160 AID M/P's a day you are more likely than not getting every single new age building done and probably each one from 2-3 ages prior. If you have something older than that, it's probably outdated anyway.
I dunno. I think people just like to complain... I'm all for it. But seriously, look into the last M/P counter feature, it would be SOOO helpful to everyone!