Its just a game folks! If and when I'm plundered..which is rare. Nothing in my life changes. Don't draw parallels between FOE and life. Nothing in this..or any other browser bases game should be "stressful". I love this game...a lot. I play way more than I should. But it's solely for my entertainment. I'm not letting anyone down if I play poorly..unlike real life team sports ect. Its a fantasy land...an escape from real life..if only for a few minutes. It's a GAME! Learn some anti plunder tactics...decoying, premium good switch, I have seen players mass boycott GB contributions thru petition work in the past. But relax..it ain't that serious.