@Charmante There are two guides you really need to read that will tell you a lot about this game -
1.
Glarging
2.
Heavy Questing
And if you still have questions, the official wiki for Foe is
here
There are a ton of abbreviations that FOE players use. And unfortunately when someone explains how to do something they usually tell you in FOE speak. So be prepared to look up terms and abbreviations in your FOE to English dictionary using the search bar in the forum or in the wiki. I think there is a posting somewhere of common abbreviations but I couldn't find it tonight. Perhaps someone else has that link available?